When asked what are the signs of arousal in a man, any girl will immediately answer that it is an erection. However, how to know that a man wants to make love, if you check whether his organ is ready "for work and defense" is not possible.
Signs of arousal in men:
- Non-verbal signals.
- Courtship.
- The position of the human body.
- Physical reactions.
Non-verbal cues
There are non-verbal body signals that can tell you just as well as words if a guy wants you. For example, if a man is interested in you and wants to make love to you, he will begin to copy your actions on a subconscious level, this will manifest itself by repeating your body movements and positions. If a man, on the other hand, starts playing "mirror" with you, this is a clear sign that he does not mind taking you to the bedroom.
During a conversation, an excited man will constantly close the distance between you, doing this completely automatically. In the process of communication, the distances between bodies will slowly but surely decrease. The next stage is direct contact - touch. This does not mean that a man will begin to give up, allowing himself too much. The cooler your relationship, the less intense this stage will be. It can manifest itself in light contact with hands and feet. This is the body language that clearly says that a man lusts after you. Pay attention to such accidents, which, as a rule, are not accidental at all.
Courtship
During communication, an excited man will not miss the opportunity to show attention to the object of his desire. If you are sitting at the table, he will fill your glass, serve you a snack, and in the case of a warm relationship, he will try to feed you from his own hands. That last one is a sure sign that "the client is ready", take it lukewarm, it won't go anywhere.
An excited man will help you sit on a chair and get up from it. He will give you outer clothes and help you put them on. He will do all this not only out of kindness. His masculine nature will tell him that this is an additional opportunity to make contact, to touch the object of his desire.
The position of the human body
When he sees a woman he is interested in, the guy automatically turns on the "macho" mode, straightens his back, squeezes his stomach, thus showing how harmonious he is and all the charm of his male figure. If a guy is sitting down, he will automatically open his legs, showing off his groin. Spreading the legs is a gesture of a confident male who has noticed a worthy female.
If you are standing opposite each other, then pay attention to which direction his shoe toes "face". Turning towards you means he is interested in you.
Physical reactions
Normally, the state of arousal manifests itself not only in the erect penis. A man's breathing rate, voice, look changes, his pulse quickens, his blood pressure rises. If you see him adjusting his tie, which seems like he's suffocating, it might not be because it's hot, but because the man is literally burning with the desire to have sex with you. At the same time, follow the man's voice and his gaze. If he is excited, he will not be able to hide it behind a "mask".
Pay attention to the man's breathing. If he is excited, he will not be able to breathe evenly and calmly as in his normal state. His breathing will change.